I have heard many say that God answers in 3 different ways – ‘yes’, ‘no’, ‘not yet’. The answers ‘yes’ and ‘no’ are easy to comprehend. Although a ‘no’ from God can bring temporary pain, it is at least better than waiting without and answer! I have the experience of getting ‘no’ as an answer for my prayers. I have asked God why, but He replies with “My grace is sufficient for you” or “Trust me.. I know best”. I have always felt comfortable with a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ but ‘not yet’ always makes me feel uncomfortable.
I have been in situations where God had asked me to wait. I go to Him for help and He tells me ‘Wait, your time hasn’t come.” I ask Him “How long Lord”, for which, He tells me, “Your days are in my Hand. Your time hasn’t come”. I then start thinking that maybe, just maybe, I am outside His will and maybe my prayers aren’t right. Maybe that is why I do not get an answer. He answers with a smile and tells me, “You are well within My will, my beloved. I make you wait on a purpose. I make you wait so that you can grow and start trusting Me completely.’
Oh, Now I get it!! When I turn back and look, every time I have waited, I have had bloomed and blossomed. Waiting has produced beautiful virtues – patience, perseverance, faith… Waiting has taught me to trust God alone, to let go of all human help, to not lean on my own understanding and knowledge. He makes me wait till I humble myself before the Lord, willing to be led, willing to surrender, willing to sacrifice.
‘Not yet’ is the most beautiful answer to a prayer. It means God cares for you and He is waiting for just that perfect moment – when the self dies and God’s glory shines through the answered prayer.
